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The Truth and the Lies of Therapy.

Not everyone needs therapy, but all of us could use it. Yet, those could benefit from it the most refuse to go. And that’s OK. One shouldn’t be shamed or forced to go to therapy. I had the fortunate and … Continue reading

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i know i shouldn’t, but i do.

I know I shouldn’t do it, but I do – compare.From the flatness of her stomach, to the curves on her hips – I am lacking.The cleavage, the light eyes, the dimples, the curly hair.But I have the crooked teeth, … Continue reading

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0 to 2 real quick.

When we’re starving, we want to eat. When we’re thirsty, we want to drink. So when we’re sad, we of course want to be happy. But it’s never as easy as stuffing our face with a burrito or chugging a … Continue reading

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Anxiety.

we met in the only childhood room I ever had to myself. Teddy-bears and other stuffed animals danced above my head, and Luther Vandross’s Here and Now played softly on the radio. I was only 5, maybe 6 when yo told … Continue reading

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do not love a lovable woman.

Do not fall in love with a woman’s smile, and then get mad when people smile at her. Do not fall in love with a woman’s laugh, and then get mad when someone else makes her giggle. Do not fall … Continue reading

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QT.

I spent most of my adult life wanting to be the kind of woman who squeezed every second out of every minute of every hour out of the day. At the time, these were high hopes for a girl that … Continue reading

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Decent Proposal.

Sundays have always been for brunch. But instead of bottomless mimosas in last night’s clubbing clothes, it’s now cold brew with coconut milk followed by cast iron pan shopping. “My God, have we lost our edge?” were my exact thoughts … Continue reading

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The Men of 2017.

2017 has brought us laughter, sadness, love, loss, tragedy, and triumph. It’s also brought us a gang of beautiful men, and it wouldn’t be a GATNB end of the year party without acknowledging some of them. Below are five men … Continue reading

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Leftover Love.

We always hear stories about that new love.  That giddy, inconvenient, smoke and mirrors, is it real love. The kind that makes you forget how to act right. Got you making actual phone calls, but leaving texts on “read” all … Continue reading

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Bali So Hard Pt. II

You can find dozens of Bali blogs on the internet with very useful tips for your trip, but what I wanna know is, Do I need to bring this? Because I want to look cute for pics, but don’t want to … Continue reading

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