I pride myself in having an active imagination. I credit this partly to being an only child, but I also believe it’s an innate...

Once or twice a year, me and my gay meet up to partake in what I’ve newly dubbed as the 5×5: 1 drink each at 5 different bars. Last...

We are teachers. Scientists. Models. Mothers. Sisters. Best friends. Girlfriends. Wives. Grandmothers. Engineers. Fashion Designers....

It astonishes me that it is now 2018, and people are still butt-hurt when their sex tapes or nudes are leaked. We got intelligent...

I’ve always loved love. Even when it didn’t love me back. I tried so desperately not to, too. After every broken heart, ripped photograph...

I took advantage of Virgin America’s final 2-for-1 deal at AT&T Park and booked me and the misters a trip to Puerto Vallarta last...

It’s refreshing and heartwarming to look around at my friends knowing that despite years of dating fuckbois and cheaters, we all ended up...

While perusing Instagram the other day, I came across a photo of a man I knew with his new girlfriend and my heart stopped for a split...

Every year around the holidays, people take a moment to reflect on the last 300-something days of their life. If you’re like me, you’ll...

2017 has brought us laughter, sadness, love, loss, tragedy, and triumph. It’s also brought us a gang of beautiful men, and it wouldn’t be...

(Not so) back when it was hard to wake up in the mornings to survive this thing called Life, I had to forcefully remind myself that I had...

My Dearest Ho in the Making, I am so proud of the woman you are, and the ho you will soon be. As your older self, I want to let you know...

As you get older, a few things happen. You can’t drink as much, and when you do it takes longer to recover. You get sleepy at 9pm, and...

Starting at a very young age, I practiced the mantra “Chicks before dicks” and always chose my friends before my boyfriends. Was there...

I never thought I was good at giving advice. I started this blog years ago to simply share stories. My stories, your stories, her...

Dear Friend of a Friend Like Me, I just wanted to say that WE’RE SORRY. Since you’re such an understanding person you’re probably...

Photo courtesy of Sol Sisters Org The lovely ladies of Sol Sisters took to IG live to dissolve the stigma surrounding anxiety. As someone...

I remember having the most ridiculous crush on T.I. I would fantasize about being the one “normal” girl in a sea of groupies he fell in...

I’ve always despised people who say, “Let me check my calendar” when making plans. Like, should I have my people call your people while...

We always hear stories about that new love. That giddy, inconvenient, smoke and mirrors, is it real love. The kind that makes you...