They Know (they know, they know) – TBT 08.22.11
Assholes aren’t very good at many things that don’t make you cry. They flake, have wandering dicks - I mean eyes, commitment issues, and...
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dearabi
Aug 15, 20211 min read
No Body to Love.
Hi, let’s dance. We can pretend like we came together and I didn’t just see you wistfully staring into the distance then abruptly looking...
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dearabi
Aug 8, 20211 min read
Enough, Already.
I feel dumb. Nobody cares. Why even bother? What would I have to contribute? I haven't accomplished anything worthy of sharing. I was...
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dearabi
Jul 22, 20211 min read
Stranger in My House.
Isn't it strange, how two people in love can go from sharing their deepest, darkest fears and biggest, brightest dreams with each other,...
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dearabi
Jul 11, 20212 min read
Radical Acceptance.
I've been seeing a therapist on and off for a decade now. I've tried a few. From a hypnotherapist to a sex therapist to a cognitive...
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dearabi
Jul 7, 20212 min read
Fuck My Brains Out - 02.09.11
Wale once said he wanted to fuck the shit out of a females aspirations. If that’s the case, then I’m trying to give your brain the best...
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dearabi
Jun 27, 20211 min read
I See You.
What a tragedy it is for you to not see the beauty I see in you. To be blind to the way your eyes widen and sparkle when something...
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dearabi
Jun 23, 20211 min read
I'm Sorry.
I'm sorry I didn't love you. Touch you. Kiss you. Hug you. The way you wanted, the way you deserved. I wanted to so bad, but not all of...
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dearabi
Jun 14, 20212 min read
i am not your therapist (No MFT).
When we broke up, I immediately went into self destruct mode. While it always takes two to tango, I was having a pity party of one. I...
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dearabi
Jun 9, 20212 min read
To His Next, Last girl pt I
To his next, last girl - I was the before you. I am the reason he might think twice before leaving the dishes in the sink, and have a...
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dearabi
Jun 2, 20212 min read
Save the Date pt II
"I am so excited for the guy that gets to date me" I said this nonchalantly, almost obliviously to my girl Mari one beautiful Napa...
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dearabi
May 12, 20211 min read
Fuck My Life. No, Really.
"I think my vagina is broken," I said. "You are not broken. It happens," she replied. There are a few reasons why I haven't posted my...
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dearabi
May 10, 20211 min read
I Sea You.
There's nothing like the sea, to make you see. Just how small you really are. Not small like the grains of sand covering the beach Small...
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dearabi
Apr 19, 20212 min read
Forgive and Take.
Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace I was having a conversation with a friend of mine and...
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dearabi
Apr 12, 20212 min read
The Audacity.
A few days ago I shared a story on Instagram about the time I moved to New York to pursue writing, yet told the cashier at Brooklyn...
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dearabi
Apr 6, 20211 min read
GATNB x Face Fitness
Here's a fun tutorial of three techniques you can find in Patty's book, "Face Fitness" to help strengthen, tone, and sculpt your...
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dearabi
Apr 5, 20212 min read
How to Grow A Plant and Kill A Relationship.
I bought my first plant a little over two years ago when I moved into what I liked to call my first "adult" apartment. I went to Roots on...
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dearabi
Mar 31, 20211 min read
EmpatheDick.
Yeah sex is great, but have you ever had a man buy you tickets to a Giants game even though you were acting like an asshole, because you...
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dearabi
Mar 22, 20212 min read
"For what is grief, but love persevering"
I'd never been good with buying birthday cards, that was always his expertise. I could't find a sushi related card, so I settled with a...
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dearabi
Mar 15, 20212 min read
Hit it on the Nail.
Fun fact: my mom didn't let me grow my finger nails until I graduated high school. She thought I was too young to. Sometimes, I'd get...
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