You lie to me, I lay under you. You tell me how much you like me and I don't know what to do. I make excuses for you to make excuses for...

I manifested him. A true partner. A motivator. A man that makes me laugh and feel sexy. Someone on the same team. Someone that gives me a...

The first time I was on Hinge, it was the first year of the pandemic and roughly three months after my boyfriend and I broke up. It was...

YOU ARE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR SHIP. YOU ARE THE DIRECTOR OF YOUR SHOW. How it took decades for me to truly grasp this simple idea is beyond...

I once heard someone say that "A bright flame burns twice as fast," and it's haunted me ever since. Why does it have to be this way? I...

My girl Fab said to throw away any medieval lists about prerequisites you have for men and to replace it with a list of how you want...

You say you're actively falling for me everyday. That's nice. I'm not being an asshole, I mean that. I didn't fall for you, I mean that...

You would never guess it by the way I sweat it, but I questioned it at first. Your stature, your jeans, your hands - my man? Nahhh ... I...

I've done a lot of work to heal from heartbreak - to ensure that regardless of what happens, I know and believe I am still loved and more...

I'm struggling with finding a healthy balance between "leaning in" and pulling back. Old habits die hard, and I still have a habit of...

She was Colombian and Thai. The one before her, French and Black - both dancers. And just like that, I felt so ... plain. It's silly and...

When I was in my twenties I legitimately assumed that once you turned 30, something magical (or at least biological) would happen, and a...

The saying goes, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" and we've seen its truth time and time again. The things some women do out of...

I have way too may things to say about the latest chapter of Sex and the City aptly titled, And Just Like That. So many things that it...

I used to be afraid of the rain. I thought it would dissolve the facade of me being OK. Strip me of my smile and uncover a season of sad...

Whenever I take a stroll down memory lane and read old sex blogs I think two things: Wow, I can't believe I wrote that and Wow, I can't...

Urban legend is if you ask Alexa to play toxic music, Drake's discography will automatically come on. OK, I'm lying. But I ain't lying...

What are little girls made of? Sugar n spice, and everything nice. That's what little girls are made of. But women like me who were born...

What happens once the party's over? When the lights come on, and everyone leaves. When the band is done and the confetti stops falling....

It's been a few weeks - maybe even a month, since I deleted all your photos from my Google drive in an attempt to erase you from my life....