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The Trouble With Being Single.
I am officially the only single girl in the world. At least that’s what it feels like. I am however, the only single girl left out of my...
dearabi
Jul 1, 20152 min read
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Rejecting Rejection.
You could move. A minimum of 5 states apart. The more states the better. It’s a great excuse to not be with someone, but it only works if...
dearabi
Apr 7, 20152 min read
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This Is How You Lose Her TBT 03.08.13
You meet him. You kiss him on the first date. Fireworks – July. You have sex with him for the first time. Heat – September. He makes...
dearabi
Mar 19, 20152 min read
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Heart and Soul Pt II
Continued from Heart and Soul Pt I He woke up to the familiar feeling of his girlfriend’s hand rubbing him, his dick already fully...
dearabi
Mar 12, 20152 min read
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Heart and Soul Pt I
She didn’t snap out of auto-drive until she opened the front door, and even then she couldn’t remember ever taking out her keys. That’s...
dearabi
Mar 11, 20152 min read
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Live, Love, Let Go, and Let Die.
The worst years sometimes teach the best lessons, and I’ve learned a lot in the past 12 months. Some things new, and some things harsh...
dearabi
Feb 23, 20152 min read
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50 shades of grey and none of these colors look flattering on me.
I spend most of my time bashing myself, so let me have my moment here when I say that I am an awesome homegirl. I may drive my homies...
dearabi
Feb 9, 20152 min read
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Hurt & Hope.
The other day I helped a very dear friend of mine pick out an engagement ring for another very dear friend of mine. While I loved hearing...
dearabi
Feb 2, 20152 min read
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Condoms Shmondoms.
Growing up, there were a few things that stuck out during every sex lecture I heard: 1) Don’t have it, 2) Don’t listen to boys 3) Don’t...
dearabi
Jan 28, 20152 min read
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Fuck Up Hard.
You are not going to believe me, but there is a simple solution to every problem. Every. Single. One. With the rarest of exceptions,...
dearabi
Nov 21, 20142 min read
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The Non-Date. TBT Post 09.17.12
They left shortly after breakfast, and arrived a little after lunch. They checked in, and were pleasantly surprised. Clean sheets, cable,...
dearabi
Nov 20, 20142 min read
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Believe It, Or Not.
When I was little, I believed that my mother was the most beautiful woman in the world. From her impeccable fashion sense, to the way...
dearabi
Sep 5, 20144 min read
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That Thing You Do – TBT 10.26.12
I’m doing it again. That silly “thinking of you” thing that I have no control over. You know, that thing where I think about the first...
dearabi
Aug 21, 20142 min read
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But We Were On A Break.
There was one time in my entire life where I actually felt like a “man”. It wasn’t when I was watching the game on my couch by myself...
dearabi
Jan 7, 20142 min read
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Going The Distance.
Being in a relationship in general can be trying for some people. Add time and space to the equation, and it can be that much harder....
dearabi
Sep 17, 20132 min read
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Blessing and a Curse – TBT 03.28.11
Sitting at the bar of a posh hotel does wonders for a woman’s self-esteem. Last Saturday, as I was stirring three olives in my exxxtra...
dearabi
Jul 11, 20132 min read
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Ultimayhem.
It used to be you’d go on a date and find out what the other person liked to drink. Maybe what they were allergic to, where they worked,...
dearabi
Jul 8, 20132 min read
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I Used To Love Writing About Love. Now, I Just Love To Write.
Contrary to popular belief, I am not a sex blogger. Even if it is what people (now) know me best for, and how people introduce me. “Hey...
dearabi
Jun 11, 20131 min read
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When Worse Comes To Worst, My People Come First.
I mentioned here that my friends are ruining my life by falling in love and shit. While I may be exaggerating, I’m only half joking. I’m...
dearabi
Apr 16, 20132 min read
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Weekend Round-up.
In case you missed it the first time, check out this past weeks posts below! And don’t forget to follow GATNB on Instagram here and...
dearabi
Mar 23, 20131 min read
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