Don’t Save The Date.
I am horrible at dating. My idea of “dating,” is seeing one person at a time to see if we’d actually be good in a relationship. What’s...
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dearabi
Feb 20, 20142 min read
Stupid Is, Stupid Does – TBT 04.07.11
It never ceases to amaze me that some of the smartest people I know make the most STUPID decisions. And whether man, woman, Filipino, or...
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dearabi
Feb 17, 20141 min read
The Have Ads.
Attractive. Funny, extra points if you’re witty. Thoughtful, considerate and respectful. Well-balanced with the ability to make time for...
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dearabi
Feb 11, 20141 min read
“Communication Kills Assumption”
It used to be that when you went out with a man and he showed interest in you, it meant he was actually interested in you. I learned the...
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dearabi
Feb 6, 20141 min read
Lost and Found – TBT 01.19.10
We have to remember that while people strive to change for the better, people can and will change for the worse. Nobody is who they seem....
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dearabi
Jan 30, 20142 min read
Enough Already? – TBT 04.25.11
Past experiences have taught me to be careful when giving ultimatums – especially ones to myself. I grew up thinking there were certain...
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dearabi
Jan 28, 20142 min read
The Right Kind Of Wrong.
New Years Day started off with a bang for me – literally. Since then, I’ve been subconsciously making an effort to take baby-steps...
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dearabi
Jan 24, 20141 min read
Safety Last.
I’ve been told that I’m not safe. I’m too curious. I ask questions, and want to know everything. I peer into door cracks that weren’t...
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dearabi
Jan 23, 20142 min read
The Wrong Kind of Right – TBT 01.17.12
I’ve decided that my favorite thing to do with you is randomly text you out of nowhere, delete it immediately after, feel stupid, and...
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dearabi
Jan 20, 20141 min read
Two Single Scoops Please.
The popular mantra is “Fake it ’til you make it”. To me, it’s just being fake. I ain’t knocking it though. It seems to work for and...
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dearabi
Jan 16, 20142 min read
Technically Speaking – TBT 01.30.12
Somehow I’ve tricked my male friends into thinking I possess some sort of logic and rationale when it comes to dating and relationships....
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dearabi
Jan 14, 20142 min read
How To Be A Crazy Bitch.
Finding out the guy you’ve been seeing has a girlfriend, or finding out that your boyfriend has been actively seeing someone else can...
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dearabi
Jan 9, 20141 min read
The Road Less Traveled – TBT 01.25.11
“We were never meant to be, we just happened.” Because we made it happen.And nowI can’t figure out if I’m glad they didor not. I just...
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dearabi
Jan 7, 20142 min read
But We Were On A Break.
There was one time in my entire life where I actually felt like a “man”. It wasn’t when I was watching the game on my couch by myself...
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dearabi
Dec 26, 20132 min read
Truth Heals – TBT 12.10.11
A lot of women say they want an honest man, but don’t know how to act when they finally get one. These are the same women who get mad at...
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dearabi
Dec 23, 20131 min read
All I Ask.
I’ve never asked a man to buy me anything. No diamond rings, or Louboutins. No designer purse. Or satchel. Or tote. Not even a wallet....
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dearabi
Dec 19, 20132 min read
if you want something new, you have to stop doing something old.
The other night I went on a date. WTF. I’ve been on so many unofficial dates that it’s weird to read those words back to myself. But I’m...
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dearabi
Dec 16, 20131 min read
“i’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but i rather be your shot of whiskey anyway”
i want to be your shot of whiskey, and take the edge away. make you punch drunk love. spicy. make you feel it in your chest. i want...
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dearabi
Nov 29, 20131 min read
tough guy
he can protect her, but who’s going to protect her form HIM?
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dearabi
Nov 26, 20131 min read
no she didn’t.
i’m not supposed to tell you this. that i want to be in love. i’m not supposed to let you know that my bustling friday nights consist of...
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