Ayesha, you know I want you so bad.
Some of you may have watched this Red Table Talk episode featuring the women of the Curry family, but my bet is more of you have seen...
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dearabi
Apr 14, 20194 min read
what goes up, must come down.
“I care for you a lot, and that’s why I don’t want to hurt you. I just need time to do me. This is what’s best for the both of us. If we...
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dearabi
Apr 1, 20192 min read
The 6 Stages After A Break Up.
In “The First Week After A Break Up” here, I wrote about the mundane routine one naturally falls into post-heartache. But as we all know,...
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dearabi
Jan 14, 20192 min read
Love, Everywhere.
Last week, I shared my typical morning routine. It was intentional, and meant to be. But sometimes, we fall into routines without even...
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dearabi
Oct 8, 20182 min read
Words to Love By.
Throughout the years I’ve given a lot of advice that I never could take (that would just be silly, come on now!). If there was any advice...
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dearabi
May 17, 20182 min read
The Look for Less.
::EDITORS NOTE AFTER JUMP:: I’ve noticed that a lot of single men put “looks” at the top of their list of what they look for in a...
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dearabi
Apr 30, 20182 min read
On My Mind.
Current song: On My Mind Current mood: Nostalgic On my way to grab lunch the other day, I made sure to play my Jorja Smith playlist on...
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dearabi
Apr 22, 20182 min read
Thanks, Captain.
The other day Jey asked me, “You ever have those moments where you’re reminded of why you’re with someone?” before praising his wife....
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dearabi
Mar 12, 20182 min read
Phase Out.
Once or twice a year, me and my gay meet up to partake in what I’ve newly dubbed as the 5×5: 1 drink each at 5 different bars. Last...
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dearabi
Feb 14, 20182 min read
Happy Valentine’s Day.
I’ve always loved love. Even when it didn’t love me back. I tried so desperately not to, too. After every broken heart, ripped photograph...
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dearabi
Feb 1, 20182 min read
The Baesics of Being an Instagram Boyfriend.
It’s refreshing and heartwarming to look around at my friends knowing that despite years of dating fuckbois and cheaters, we all ended up...
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dearabi
Jan 23, 20182 min read
The Sympathy Sads.
While perusing Instagram the other day, I came across a photo of a man I knew with his new girlfriend and my heart stopped for a split...
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dearabi
Dec 1, 20172 min read
Please Advise.
I never thought I was good at giving advice. I started this blog years ago to simply share stories. My stories, your stories, her...
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dearabi
Nov 22, 20172 min read
All is UnFair in Love and Porn.
I remember having the most ridiculous crush on T.I. I would fantasize about being the one “normal” girl in a sea of groupies he fell in...
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dearabi
Nov 5, 20172 min read
9-5
“My man is my man is your man Her, this her man too My man is my man is your man Her, that’s her man Tuesday and Wednesday, Thursday and...
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dearabi
Sep 28, 20172 min read
Broken Peaces.
I watched it happen. I watched as the cracks spread through her body like heroin flowing through your bloodstream. It started at the tips...
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dearabi
Sep 25, 20171 min read
Want Less, Need More.
Because the sex is good. Because we’re dumb AF. Because we don’t want to be alone. Because we hope that things will change. And finally …...
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dearabi
Sep 21, 20172 min read
Good, bad decisions.
I stared at my phone for almost 30 minutes before I finally sent the text. I took half an hour going back and forth with myself, adding...
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dearabi
Aug 10, 20172 min read
Woman to Woman.
After impatiently waiting for all my favorites shows to come back into rotation, I gave in and started watching Power. It’s not great,...
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dearabi
Jul 27, 20171 min read
Don’t Go Breaking Your Heart.
I am forever in my head. Telling myself things I need to hear, and especially telling myself things I don’t need to hear. Telling myself...
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