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dearabi
May 23, 20122 min read
On a Good Day – Throwback Thursday 01.28.11
You ask me how I feel, and I can’t reply. Not because I have nothing to say, but because there’s so much. Too much. I could say, “good,”...
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dearabi
May 21, 20121 min read
Used to You
Most girls don’t want to get used to someone, because they don’t want to have to get un-used to them once they’re gone. It’s a terrible...
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dearabi
May 7, 20122 min read
Love & Marriage.
A few weeks ago I started a post about my first love. About how at 16 we fell in love, and for the next 10 years or so planned a future...
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dearabi
May 6, 20122 min read
Don’t Let the unNecessary Occur.
I used to think that when it came to relationships, it was now or never. You meet someone, then determine right then and there whether...
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dearabi
Apr 30, 20122 min read
36 Minutes.
It amazes me that after five months of not thinking nor caring about someone, all it takes is 36 minutes to open the floodgates. I saw...
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dearabi
Apr 29, 20121 min read
No Secret There.
I have a secret to tell you. She doesn’t like you, she’s just bored. There. I said it. Please don’t shoot the messenger, because you...
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dearabi
Apr 26, 20122 min read
Men Lie, Women Lie, Ramen Noodles Don’t.
The other day I had dinner with my West Coast chinita, Kristina at Toyose. For those of you who don’t know, Toyose only has the best...
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dearabi
Apr 25, 20122 min read
Willpower – Throwback Thursday 08.23.10
Getting into a (potentially) new relationship can be hard for jaded individuals, and even harder for those who are damaged. A family...
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dearabi
Apr 18, 20122 min read
The Black Diamond – Throwback Thursday 03.03.11
Last Tuesday at the Warrior vs. Hornets game, they acknowledged their season ticket holders of the night. I Feel Good by James Brown...
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dearabi
Apr 11, 20122 min read
nEXted – Throwback Thursday 10.18.10
I’ve been many things in my life. A daughter, a sister. A student, a teacher. A friend, a foe. A lover, a fighter. But one thing I’ve...
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dearabi
Apr 4, 20123 min read
So Easy, A Caveman Can Do It – Throwback Thursday Post 12.27.10
Women may be from Venus and men might be from Mars but I promise u there’s a little planet somewhere in between where they meet up, have...
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dearabi
Mar 29, 20123 min read
You Betta WORK – Throwback Thursday 06.02.10
I always thought that as long as you have trust, respect, love, and laughter in a relationship, that it’s virtually impossible to NOT get...
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dearabi
Mar 19, 20123 min read
Face to Face(book)
Amateurs. If this is real, not sure why she would accept the friend request of the dude she just banged in Cancun while her man was at...
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dearabi
Mar 18, 20122 min read
When Less Isn’t More.
Over a tall pint of beer, a glass of Cab, and an enormous chocolate chip cookie, me and a friend put in some work at The Grove. And...
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dearabi
Mar 15, 20122 min read
Friends Without Benefits.
I’ve always wondered if booty-calls could ever turn into relationships. After asking one of the biggest assholes I know, I now know that...
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dearabi
Mar 15, 20122 min read
NEW – Throwback Thursday 06.15.10
You know that feeling you get when he smiles and all of a sudden you kinda wanna die a little? That kinda feeling. The kind where even...
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dearabi
Mar 12, 20121 min read
All I Ask of You.
I’m a hopeless romantic. There is no doubt in my mind that pure, honest, respectful, selfless, and unconditional love exists. You know....
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dearabi
Mar 8, 20122 min read
For Better? Or Worse? – Throwback Thursday 09.09.10
After a not-so-great break up or any relationship altercation where someone is did dirty, usually your awesome friends are gonna come in...
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dearabi
Mar 8, 20122 min read
From Thug Life, to House Wife.
Any woman who’s ever dated a “gamer” knows that once the new COD or NBA2k drops, she will momentarily lose her man to the machine....
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