Sitting at the bar of a posh hotel does wonders for a woman’s self-esteem. Last Saturday, as I was stirring three olives in my exxxtra...

It used to be you’d go on a date and find out what the other person liked to drink. Maybe what they were allergic to, where they worked,...

The other day Bereolaesque tweeted “Don’t mistake insecurity with woman’s intuition.” I don’t even know how he looks but he can GET IT on...

Years ago, I remember having a friend that dated a huge Warriors fan. Out of nowhere she began attending games regularly, spending...

People sometimes pride themselves in not calling someone they shouldn’t. I know I do, but that’s the easy part. The real test comes when...

I just listened to a friends cover of Bruno Mars’ Talking to the Moon and am now typing with blurred vision due to tearing up from it....

When it comes to relationships, we all make stupid decisions every now and then. I remember receiving an email from a guy I used to date...

I hope so. Even just a little. Because I’d hate to be the only one … staring at my cell phone. Smiling when it’s you. Pouting when it’s...

Contrary to popular belief, I am not a sex blogger. Even if it is what people (now) know me best for, and how people introduce me. “Hey...

i used to love him. more than the world itself. he was good at everything and could do no wrong. i loved his strength. his talent. his...

Sometimes when you’re moving forward, shit that seems “backwards” start to make sense. When I broke up with my first love and later...

Sometimes we do things and have no idea why we do them. Sometimes we say one thing and then do another. Sometimes we feel a certain way...

I know a girl who once took BART all the way from Millbrae to Embarcadero and then hopped on another train all the way to...

By now, you should all know what a “side-chick” is. If not, think Karrine Superhead Steffans. Monica Lewinski. Or motherfucking Marilyn...

I’ve had love, and I’ve lost love. I’ve earned love, taken advantage of love, had my love abused, and spread love like wildfire. I’ve...

In life, they say to hope for the best but expect the worse. And in relationships, they tell you to not expect anything at all -_- That’s...

You did not discover love. So I would appreciate it if you stopped alerting the presses at the slightest hint of butterflies. Because...

Hi. How could I forget you? Your face. It’s so beautiful. I remember when I used to love looking at it. But. I was wondering. If maybe,...

I changed into a new shirt since the one I was wearing was drenched with sweat as if I had just got out of Bikram, and thought about it...

She wore the dress. The one made just for her existence. Black, like the sands of Punalu-u. Liquid sex against her thighs, as her hips...