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Good Morning, Good Night.
I’ve never been one to have any type of routine. I usually roll out of bed in the mornings with just enough time to shower, and hop in my...
dearabi
Mar 30, 20153 min read
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I’m Sorry Instagram, You’ve Violated My Terms of Service.
Everytime lent comes around, someone I know usually gives up social media. I used to think this was so stupid. Until one random day, I...
dearabi
Mar 28, 20152 min read
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I’ sorry, what?
The following was written while I was in Napa spending time with my mom. It was just after my grandfather’s passing, and we spent many...
dearabi
Mar 23, 20152 min read
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This Is How You Lose Her TBT 03.08.13
You meet him. You kiss him on the first date. Fireworks – July. You have sex with him for the first time. Heat – September. He makes...
dearabi
Mar 19, 20152 min read
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Daddy-Jorge.
I feel like a horrible granddaughter. I should’ve spent more time with him while he was here last year. I should’ve dropped him off at...
dearabi
Mar 9, 20153 min read
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Forgiveness Fridays.
“Don’t let excessive guilt linger” | Guilt can be useful. In small doses, it alerts you to take action to mend a problem in your...
dearabi
Mar 6, 20151 min read
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i can’t see ’em coming down my eyes, so i gotta make the song cry – TBT 07.28.13
It’s been a little over a week now since you’ve left. And with the exception of two or three tears that barely made it to the bottom of...
dearabi
Mar 5, 20152 min read
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Taming the Beast.
Inhale. Focus. Exhale. SHOOT. There’s a deafening silence you hear when you stare down the sight of a gun and shoot. An organized chaos...
dearabi
Mar 2, 20151 min read
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No Time to Bleed – TBT 12.16.11
Think fast. Love strong. Dream big. Live large. Work Smart. Party hard. Play Scattergories with friends. Have Tuesday dinners at...
dearabi
Feb 26, 20152 min read
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Live, Love, Let Go, and Let Die.
The worst years sometimes teach the best lessons, and I’ve learned a lot in the past 12 months. Some things new, and some things harsh...
dearabi
Feb 23, 20152 min read
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Get Right or Get Left.
In 2012 I recalled quite possibly the one time I’ve ever approached a man. And as awkward as that story still was, trust me when I say...
dearabi
Feb 20, 20152 min read
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Ain’t No Fun – FBF 1/24/12
The first time I heard about Molly, she went on an all girls trip with the Wolf Pack in Vegas about two years ago. I didn’t quite...
dearabi
Jan 23, 20152 min read
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the most beautiful thing in this world.
I once spent 25 minutes stalking hot girls on Instagram. I scrolled through my feed and clicked on any woman who had a face I wanted to...
dearabi
Dec 15, 20142 min read
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Contesting the Protesting.
By now you should be aware of the massive protests occurring statewide in response to the cases of Michael Brown and Eric Garner. Most...
dearabi
Dec 12, 20142 min read
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Deciphering Depression.
I can’t say I’m an expert on anything, but I mostly write from experience. And I can say that I’ve experienced bouts of depression. Like...
dearabi
Dec 2, 20142 min read
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“Let’s not just make noise, let’s make a difference”
Amidst the news of Panda leaving us for Boston and having an aneurism over my Fantasy Football game yesterday, I caught wind that the...
dearabi
Nov 25, 20142 min read
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There’s Something About Mare.
The most special of birthday wishes to my dearest Gail. Missing you now more than ever. Party it up boo, I heard there’s no such thing as...
dearabi
Nov 18, 20141 min read
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The Living Dead.
Sometimes I talk to the dead. I lay in her bed, and get my shoes dirty from playing with her sheets. I bring her trinkets, hoping they...
dearabi
Nov 18, 20141 min read
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Good Woman, Bad Woman.
Street harassment. I watched a few of the street harassment videos that have recently circulated the internet, including the one of...
dearabi
Nov 12, 20143 min read
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