I had a conversation with my ace this morning. It started with me trying to figure out what tropical island I was going to spend money I...

I have amazing friends. They’re beautiful, and talented. Thoughtful and funny. Smart, and cultured. Every now and then we’ll summon...

Daaaaaamn Abi, back at it again with another post. It’s been a while since I’ve blogged, what more wrote a “Shit Bitches Love” post, so I...

Me looking nervous while he looks like a fucking toothpaste commercial. I’ve always wanted to go skydiving. While I’m frantic in 5 feet...

Warriors fan or not, you know who Stephen Curry is. And if you’re an actual fan, then you are also familiar with his spunky daughter...

In case you haven’t figured it out by now, I’m Asian. This means people automatically assume I’m good at math, bad at driving, and eat...

The above meme has been reposted on my social media feed by friends and acquaintances a plethora of times now. And why not? It’s a great...

I’ve always thought the best way to get in shape is to get your heartbroken. Either you’re too sad to eat and so desperate to keep...

As negative as I may seem to be, I truly admire people who can have a positive outlook in the midst of even the darkest hours. And...

You are not good enough. You are so fucking stupid. You are worthless. You are not enough. You are a loser. Look at you, no wonder...

“I wanted to tell you again it was awesome seeing you. You’re even sexier than I remember”. That was the message I got from a friend of...

I traveled to Oahu solo once, and it was probably my second best trip there. My last solo trip was a little different. After much debate...

I visited the island of Kauai for the first time last week and must say … it was everything I didn’t know I wanted. For five days I was...

A while ago I read an article about the importance of calendaring. As an Office Manager, I am obviously about that life. “To do list by...

Depression never seems real until it’s too late. While more light is being shed on the subject partly due to high profile cases like...

During your viewing me and the girls all went up to your coffin to talk shit with you one last time. There, I asked that you visit me...

I miss you. Obviously. I miss you when I see your friends, and when your brother posts a picture on social media. You two have the same...

It was Casino Night at my old job when I spotted him. I thought he was handsome. “Handsome” is what I call men who aren’t my “typical”...

I’ve said this a million fucking times – my friends are incredible. So much that I often wonder what on Earth I could’ve possibly done to...

In Thoughts On Turning 30: Switching Careers, Jozen talks about the difference between talent and skill. In it he basically solidifies...