Fall For My Type – TBT 12.23.10

I wonder how it feels to be you.

Having to look at me.
Look at him.
The same way I used to look at you.

I almost feel bad. Because I know how it feels to pull a conversation out your ass in hopes that it will make the other person remember a special memory the two of you had. Or maybe, just MAYBE – miss you back.

So how does it feel when I don’t pick up, or reply. Or answer the way I used to? No smiley faces or good mornings. No “I had a great time.”

Remember when I used to sniff your neck and kiss that part right behind your earlobe?
Remember when I used to trace the definition of your muscles and work my way down?

I wonder how it feels to sit across from me during dinner. Just like we used to. Talking about everything and nothing at all. Same ol’, Same ol’ – yet not the same at all.

Because NOW? I’m not looking at you gasping for a breath of fresh air. Choking on anxiety. I’m not trying to search for answers or a way to get in. I’M NOT CRYING INSIDE. I’m not wondering if you’re for real, or second guessing myself. You. Us. Because NOW? Dinner is just a slice of pizza and spaghetti with meatballs for you, and linguine with clams for me. It’s just a formality.

Because NOW? I’m not making excuses for you. Or giving you the benefit of the doubt. Or refusing to look at the facts. You probably don’t even care. And that’s fine. All that matters is I don’t either. I just look at you and see you, your slice of cheese pizza, plate of spaghetti and meatballs, and everything I loved about you … and everything I DON’T EVER want in a man.

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7 Responses to Fall For My Type – TBT 12.23.10

  1. Stace says:

    >Wow. I felt that exact way when I went out to eat with an ex. It's such a good feeling. A bittersweet feeling.Love your posts.

  2. Mouf.Peace says:

    >isn't it? congratulations mama 🙂

  3. Anonymous says:

    >I love this. I'm SO happy for you. I can't wait to be there.

  4. Anonymous says:

    >My bf and I just broke up the other day… And it's reading blogs like this to get my ass in check when I'm feeling otherwise. Thanks, Abi! ❤

  5. >thats what up! preach on girl! 🙂 thank you for always being on point.

  6. marie says:

    >You did it again. The emotion you described is right on point when you're over someone and you're just ready to co-exist with them with no romantic expectation. Love it. Happy Holidays =)

  7. Mouf.Peace says:

    >@ anon – i'm happy for me too lol, it gets easier and easier everytime. u'll be there in no time.@anon 2 – aw glad the blog has helped u. it's still fresh though, so it's ok if u un-check urself lol, baby steps my dear.@audrey – welcome love :)@marie – i agree, that point where u can feel indifferent about things is awesome! happy holidays to u too!

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