We have to remember that while people strive to change for the better, people can and will change for the worse. Nobody is who they seem.
The most beautiful woman in the world can look at herself in the mirror and truly believe she is ugly. And that man who once looked at u like u were his world one day, can just as easily look at u as his bootycall the next.
It gets confusing. And we easily get so blinded by love and clouded by negative thoughts that the bigger picture is never in plain view. But it is imperative for us to differentiate who we are dealing with. It’s vital to our sanity, and most of all – our hearts.
So before u let that next tear roll down that cheek of urs, remind urself that u are about to cry for a man who no longer exists – a complete stranger. This man is everything he loathed, everything he talked shit about, and everything he swore he’d never be. Still don’t believe me? BELIEVE IT. ‘Cuz this man is not worth ur tears, and the man who is? The man he used to be? Well he would never, ever make u cry to begin with.
I’m sure the guy who wore fake eyelashes for u and only u just to make u laugh is still in there somewhere. But let him go find himself, ‘cuz it ain’t up to u to resurrect the dead. ‘And by then u’ll have found that amazing woman u swear has disappeared as well.