Category Archives: Love & Relationships

Safety Last.

I’ve been told that I’m not safe.  I’m too curious. I ask questions, and want to know everything. I peer into door cracks that weren’t intended to be left ajar. And taste things because I want to find out for … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | Leave a comment

The Wrong Kind of Right – TBT 01.17.12

I’ve decided that my favorite thing to do with you is randomly text you out of nowhere, delete it immediately after, feel stupid, and then pretend it never happened. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve done this since … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | Leave a comment

Two Single Scoops Please.

The popular mantra is “Fake it ’til you make it”. To me, it’s just being fake. I ain’t knocking it though. It seems to work for and motivate a lot of people. I want it to work for me too. … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | Leave a comment

Technically Speaking – TBT 01.30.12

Somehow I’ve tricked my male friends into thinking I possess some sort of logic and rationale when it comes to dating and relationships. A lot of the time they’ll confide in me because they either genuinely like a girl, and … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | 1 Comment

How To Be A Crazy Bitch.

Finding out the guy you’ve been seeing has a girlfriend, or finding out that your boyfriend has been actively seeing someone else can turn even the most rational, mature woman into Lisa Left-Eye Lopez (RIP). I’ll preface this post by … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | 1 Comment

The Road Less Traveled – TBT 01.25.11

I’m stepping out the car now, and I can’t see a single familiar face, landmark, or even street sign in sight. I have no idea how we even got here. I just know that we drove fast, with the music … Continue reading

Posted in Life, Love & Relationships | 8 Comments

But We Were On A Break.

There was one time in my entire life where I actually felt like a “man”. It wasn’t when I was watching the game on my couch by myself guzzling a beer in one hand and eating a sandwich with the … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | Tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment

Truth Heals – TBT 12.10.11

A lot of women say they want an honest man, but don’t know how to act when they finally get one. These are the same women who get mad at you for telling them that your homegirl slept over on … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | 1 Comment

All I Ask.

I’ve never asked a man to buy me anything. No diamond rings, or Louboutins. No designer purse. Or satchel. Or tote. Not even a wallet. I’ve never asked a man to take me anywhere. No sightseeing in France, or backpacking … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | Leave a comment

if you want something new, you have to stop doing something old.

The other night I went on a date. WTF. I’ve been on so many unofficial dates that it’s weird to read those words back to myself. But I’m trying this new thing called being open minded. So despite the *smh* disapproval from … Continue reading

Posted in Love & Relationships | 1 Comment