Category Archives: Love & Relationships

It’s Not You, It’s Me. – #TBT 03.06.12

Lonely. Waiting. Is it done yet? Because I get it. Tired of the lessons, and learning the hard way. Got my riot gear on for the tough love I be gettin. Because I do me. While I do him. Segregation, … Continue reading

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Right Side of the Bed.

Little girl, big bed. That’s always been me. I’m a left side of the bed kinda person. No matter how drunk or restless I am, I never stray to the right. And when I wake up in the morning I … Continue reading

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The Hokey-Pokey – TBT 04.18.11

OK I lied and mustered enough energy and brain cells to finish this blog that I’ve had drafted for weeks now. Make sure to peep Jeyel’s post here. The last two guys I dated were completely different. But one thing … Continue reading

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I Want You. I Think.

I’m smart. I’m bad at math and horrible at grammar, but I’m smart. And I’ve learned a lot in the past year. Most important, that nothing means anything unless you communicate it up front. When a man tells you that … Continue reading

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Sleeping With the Enemy TBT 04.16.12

She slept with him again. She told herself she wouldn’t, but just like the last three times, she still did. At least she got her watch back. Now she knew that if she did see him again, it would be … Continue reading

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Needy is the New Crazy.

Remember when men would call any woman that didn’t behave exactly the way they wanted to, crazy? A woman could catch her boyfriend in bed with another woman, throw all his shit out the window and yet, she would get … Continue reading

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A Woman In Love.

Hey you. Yeah you, handsome man whose arms are wrapped around her tiny self this morning. Don’t worry. She’s not in love with you. Just because she texts you “good morning,” it doesn’t mean you were the last thing on her … Continue reading

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Don’t Save The Date.

I am horrible at dating. My idea of “dating,” is seeing one person at a time to see if we’d actually be good in a relationship. What’s the difference between the two? I don’t know. But apparently, I’ve been doing it … Continue reading

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Stupid Is, Stupid Does – TBT 04.07.11

It never ceases to amaze me that some of the smartest people I know make the most STUPID decisions. And whether man, woman, Filipino, or Black, Pulitzer Prize winner or magna cum laude – these decisions usually almost always involve … Continue reading

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The Have Ads.

Attractive. Funny, extra points if you’re witty. Thoughtful, considerate and respectful. Well-balanced with the ability to make time for their friends, family, significant other, and most of all themselves. Cultured, and open-minded. Someone that can effortlessly naturally switch from a client … Continue reading

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