Category Archives: Love & Relationships

Sleeping With the Enemy TBT 04.16.12

She slept with him again. She told herself she wouldn’t, but just like the last three times, she still did. At least she got her watch back. Now she knew that if she did see him again, it would be … Continue reading

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Needy is the New Crazy.

Remember when men would call any woman that didn’t behave exactly the way they wanted to, crazy? A woman could catch her boyfriend in bed with another woman, throw all his shit out the window and yet, she would get … Continue reading

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A Woman In Love.

Hey you. Yeah you, handsome man whose arms are wrapped around her tiny self this morning. Don’t worry. She’s not in love with you. Just because she texts you “good morning,” it doesn’t mean you were the last thing on her … Continue reading

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Don’t Save The Date.

I am horrible at dating. My idea of “dating,” is seeing one person at a time to see if we’d actually be good in a relationship. What’s the difference between the two? I don’t know. But apparently, I’ve been doing it … Continue reading

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Stupid Is, Stupid Does – TBT 04.07.11

It never ceases to amaze me that some of the smartest people I know make the most STUPID decisions. And whether man, woman, Filipino, or Black, Pulitzer Prize winner or magna cum laude – these decisions usually almost always involve … Continue reading

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The Have Ads.

Attractive. Funny, extra points if you’re witty. Thoughtful, considerate and respectful. Well-balanced with the ability to make time for their friends, family, significant other, and most of all themselves. Cultured, and open-minded. Someone that can effortlessly naturally switch from a client … Continue reading

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“Communication Kills Assumption”

It used to be that when you went out with a man and he showed interest in you,  it meant he was actually interested in you. I learned the hard way that this isn’t necessarily true. Sometimes I like to … Continue reading

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Lost and Found – TBT 01.19.10

We have to remember that while people strive to change for the better, people can and will change for the worse. Nobody is who they seem. The most beautiful woman in the world can look at herself in the mirror … Continue reading

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Enough Already? – TBT 04.25.11

Past experiences have taught me to be careful when giving ultimatums – especially ones to myself.  I grew up thinking there were certain things I would never tolerate. Well honey, never say “never,” and never say, “If s/he do this … Continue reading

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The Right Kind Of Wrong.

New Years Day started off with a  bang for me – literally. Since then, I’ve been subconsciously making an effort to take baby-steps outside of my comfort zone. It’s been going so well that friends now refer to me as “2014 … Continue reading

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