Category Archives: Love & Relationships
Men Lie, Women Lie, Ramen Noodles Don’t.
The other day I had dinner with my West Coast chinita, Kristina at Toyose. For those of you who don’t know, Toyose only has the best kimchi fried rice in San Francisco. If you beg to differ, I bet you … Continue reading
Willpower – Throwback Thursday 08.23.10
Getting into a (potentially) new relationship can be hard for jaded individuals, and even harder for those who are damaged. A family vacation turns into “visiting the ex,” and an “I miss you” text really means “I feel guilty for … Continue reading
The Black Diamond – Throwback Thursday 03.03.11
Last Tuesday at the Warrior vs. Hornets game, they acknowledged their season ticket holders of the night. I Feel Good by James Brown played as a couple who seemed to be in their fifties started giggin. They were adorable. And … Continue reading
Sleeping With the Enemy.
She slept with him again. She told herself she wouldn’t, but just like the last three times, she still did. At least she got her watch back. Now she knew that if she did see him again, it would be … Continue reading
nEXted – Throwback Thursday 10.18.10
I’ve been many things in my life. A daughter, a sister. A student, a teacher. A friend, a foe. A lover, a fighter. But one thing I’ve neer been was the NEXT girl. I’ve always been the ex. As in … Continue reading
So Easy, A Caveman Can Do It – Throwback Thursday Post 12.27.10
Women may be from Venus and men might be from Mars but I promise u there’s a little planet somewhere in between where they meet up, have drinks, and procreate. Because believe it or not – we are a lot … Continue reading
You Betta WORK – Throwback Thursday 06.02.10
I always thought that as long as you have trust, respect, love, and laughter in a relationship, that it’s virtually impossible to NOT get along. That things are only as hard as you make it. I was once in a relationship … Continue reading
Face to Face(book)
Let’s face it. Social networking, whether it be Facebook, Twitter, or even Instagram, has become a part of our daily lives. Even if we don’t have an actual account, it’s existence is undeniable and cannot be ignored. When something becomes … Continue reading
When Less Isn’t More.
Over a tall pint of beer, a glass of Cab, and an enormous chocolate chip cookie, me and a friend put in some work at The Grove. And somewhere in between talking about Kony 2012 and crazy exes, he called … Continue reading


